Photographer Meeri Koutaniemi calls on the novelty acts in the younger himself not to be hasty sexual experiences with.Meeri Koutaniemi report changes in factors photographic process.
today, published Letters to a young myself in the book (Docendo) from the public eye a familiar person, you say inter alia in the pain score is by writing a letter to young people themselves.
personal image and image report donkeys in the award-winning photographer Meeri Koutaniemi told in the book suffered as a teenager from a strong pleasing the needs of the opposite sex.
I landed at the age of 14 in a row in two different the couple’s relationship, which I had experienced sexual violence. My boyfriend was older than me and I was pressured and forced to do things that felt disgusting. I also had the rape attempt, but fortunately escaped in time, She writes.
according to Him, these experiences were unpleasant as a result of his early sexual expression. She formed the love of his perception of the fact that the relationship I heard it, that power gets used to another person by means of pressure and force by – passed in the name.
Meeri Koutaniemi tell the past kipuilusta the novelty works. Inka Soveri
Later, her nagging thoughts about why he gave the words, young and stupid it all happen. Now he realized that wrong and injustice was a power unit, not with the man himself.
I Wish I would have understood, that sex and intimacy experience is not in a hurry. Now, if I would meet a youth myself, I would say that you can say no as many times as you feel like it, She sums up.
He told in the book, including violent bullying at school. Koutaniemeä was bullied in Kuusamo, 6-grade primary school until the end. Bullies blame her femininity and the beauty of the deficiency. Verbal sex in addition to the bullying was physical. In the end 8-grade Koutaniemi sisuuntui and began to respond in kind back. It led to lyömisiin, scratching, beating and kicking miska hakoihin.
I’d Say to that young girl that hit me as hard as you can. We girls too have a strong fist, She writes.
as an Adult She regretted it, that did not require teachers hard enough action to counteract bullying.