Singer Aki Sam, 36, will face a disappointed fan assaulted by the middle of the night in their own homes.

Before singing career Aki Samuli , 36, worked in the restaurant industry. Profession customers become familiar. Sometimes the interest of the restaurant workers was a little too close to pervasive. Aki could never have imagine that they will be violent retaliation.

Ten years ago, Aki Sam was surprised in the middle of the night home from a sound sleep and beaten for minor injuries iron pipe. The author was half-familiar customer, who was fond of Contentions and disappointed after having repelled.

– I become this person obsessed. When I was working, I felt a gaze on my back and the attention feels uncomfortable. I spent some company with the evening, he left to follow the city and runs after me. We changed it because the bars. I asked the familiar bouncer, that these people would be allowed entrance after us, Aki Sam told the evening newspaper.

He experienced at the time, he rejected and was then intoxicated decided that if he doesn’t, I will, so no one else could. So he broke into my home and I woke up to the fact that I was abused in my own bed, iron pipe.

Traumatic experience still shudder Burdock.

I got bad bruising all over the body. Wall missed the iron pipe from the visible traces. The pace at which I was beaten was huge.

a Huge shame

She got battered off the reassuring.

I gave this person to understand that when morning comes, we can discuss things. I stress that I need space. He finally agreed to leave. The morning at the crack of dawn I left home my friends. When they opened the door, I couldn’t get the words out of my mouth.

Aki Sam regrets not making assault a criminal offence. Young and inexperienced, he was ashamed to be a victim of abuse and tried to cover it up.

Particularly shame producing their own screw up: Aki had left accidentally detached his back door open and the intruder get in through there.

He was very cunning and methodical. I have amstaffeja, big dogs, who protect me. This person was able to move the dog away before it attacked me.

Aki didn’t even go to the health center get help with his injuries, but trying to return to after a traumatic experience their life as if nothing had happened.

“He drove into my yard”

Vengeful admirer didn’t give up though.

I didn’t go for a month, when the nightmare continued. My yard drove the car. I looked at the bathroom window and saw that the person in question returned with reinforcements. I went into a panic. My sister lived with me and I asked her to lie, I wasn’t at home. Interveners did not believe the explanations. I ran upstairs and locked herself in the bathroom, Aki Samuli recalls.

He sent his heart pounding in the bathroom of the message in another location living best friend. A friend alerted her husband, who called the police and hurried to pack his car into the yard.

I don’t see that abuser from ever after. I become locked out of the bathroom before the cops drove him away. Because I didn’t report the crime, he was never been held accountable for their actions.

Fear followed by

after many Years experience in the memory lane will bring bad feeling to the surface. Yet in 2015 the tango beat and a singing career even after the launch Akilla has been in mind, that if a similar situation is repeated again.

– Not that kind of experience will never forget. It will leave scars I never would believe, that that person would act so. I’ve been more accurate about people, and I don’t have years to let people in on my territory. Now the 37-year-old, I’m ok with it, that this happened. Only now I can tell the assault publicly, Aki Sam said.

– of Course I’ve wondered, that if the performing artist point that the abuser still do the job or if I become some other obsession. However, I cannot be afraid, and to analyze, in advance, who I’m friendly.

assault experience is one of the reasons that Aki Sam has pulled the public cross his land to the border. He locks up his doors tightly and invites a chosen few to the village.

– a Public shit storm you and miss you somepalautteet not had any experience in comparison. Because of them I have not lost any sleep over it. For example, when I told a couple of years ago a deer accident, I was accused of attention-seeking and annoying, was not dead. Such a feel bad eruptions in social media do not care, he said.

Barren “memorial”

the storm of time is, however, not over. Aki Sam said that they had experienced some kind of bullying and threatening use during the past year, half familiar people.

– half the familiar’s bluster beat the living shit out of me. Speeches are speeches, but it stopped, when I saw the picture, which to me held a “memorial service”. Me care at in the picture that person was burning the candle at my picture next to the flowers and bushes were next to. After all, a little sick, Aki Sam said.

Aki Sam has taken the past lessons and is now reported a crime of that person.

I didn’t want to put the threats to the authorities, because if something were to happen, their is good to know that this has been in the air. Violence always leaves traces, be it mental or physical. I thought so, that mental violence can be even more piinaavampaa, it eats people and causes panic. My message to these open divisions my eyes to it, that such should not be adopted. Everyone should be so brave that you’re getting involved before it’s too late, she download.

Aki Sam talks to evening magazine interview about the experience of assault.