Popular on the region This week is Xandee (Sandy Boets) 40. That special birthday she celebrated with mixed feelings. “For the first time, the children at the daddy, and my mommy can no longer be. That makes me a little sad, but on the other hand, I’m glad I had my 40th birthday at home can experience together with my new love, Kris.”
It is a difficult year for Sandy Boets. After several heart surgeries she hoped to be able to recover in 2018, but she was affected by a tumor in her uterus. Again she went under the knife. “Once or twice I got then heard the news that there is again a tumor had formed in my uterus,” she says. “That were removed and examined. Fortunately, it turned out a benign tumor.”
The biggest medical concerns are of the job for Xandee, all troubles she still with her foot. Who arrived at one of the heart surgeries are paralyzed. “I now have a new brace thanks to my sporttherapeute, although slightly less noticeable in the steps and so I have less val. But it remains a difficult exercise, every day, to deal with this. But I sure to try a lot of sports. So I play volleyball and I ride. But I will be there, according to the professor have to get used to that foot is not much better it will be.”
Heavy losses
But that bothers Sandy not so much. She looks mentally still more. The loss of her mother in January after a battle against lung cancer, her still heavy. “My mom was always a support to me. When there is something wrong, I went to see her and she had always board for me. Also for the children it is a heavy loss, because they stayed often at her.”
Sandy slumped since the death of her mother still a little bit further in a pit road. “I couldn’t place. First time, I could not even to her grave. That was too hard. I realized that my own forces would not be on top, so I went in therapy. Therefore, I was able to the grave of my mom visiting and since that time, I put small steps further.”
While Sandy fought against her depression, she got in may again with a disappointment, since her boyfriend Jörg put a point behind the relationship. “I didn’t see it coming,” she says. “We are still friends. Jörg has a new girlfriend and to me it is there since a month and a half again talk of falling in love. I have Kris Bernac in the hospital and getting to know the spark jumps immediately. That feeling of being in love gives me wings. The click really, also with my two daughters. Kris gives me a lot of support and courage. It is still tender but I can definitely say that I was using Kris old hope to be.”
Musical comeback?
Sandy will be with her new family for the christmas season ahead of us. “I look forward to cosy moments. In 2019 I really want a new start. I’ve spent the past year multiple times selfish felt because I have time for myself took, but I really couldn’t otherwise. I had to process things. The therapy is doing me good. Sometimes I have a hard time, but I’m back stronger in my shoes.”
And so thinks Sandy is on a comeback on a musical level in 2019. “I’m going to be performing with the live band Festeyn. That is undoubtedly a peak experience. In addition, I would like to make music. Currently I am working on writing lyrics. If you have that much experience, you have enough inspiration. I have already had a lot of meaning to get back on the stage!” Who is a party plant in 2019, Festeyn books via mail to uvbooking@gmail.com or on the number 0495/22.13.46.