"Men don't excite me. Am I into women?

“My husband and I have been a couple for ten years. We have three children. Our relationship hasn’t always been easy. One of our difficult issues is sexuality. He always wants to and I never, to put it bluntly. I don’t enjoy sex that much – my husband doesn’t arouse me. I also had the problem in previous partnerships (men only). At the beginning it was exciting and new to get intimate, but as soon as it became more stable I lost the desire to have sex. I assumed it was just me. I’ve had a new colleague at work for a while. …