It was revealed that the father and son lived almost as neighbours and had lived ten years down the road.With the oath-Mika Lähdesmäki, 51, found her biological father in February Facebook notification.Tuusula types Hannu Nyyssönen, 71, had known of his son’s existence, but promised this to my mom, not to take the boy into contact.Today, the father and the son calling every other day and spend time in each other’s cabins. Hannu Nyyssönen, 71, Finland: “to my Own mother I told the boys on mother’s day”
I have the marriage of a girl who is three weeks older than Mika. Of youth way of life was pretty wild, and this happened, how it went. I went to parent my children, marry my mom, and I just got the hindsight to know that another girlfriend was waiting also for the children.
the Knowledge that I have another son, forget a couple for ten years altogether.
I only Told two people.
a Very good friend of mine told 20 years ago to fish in the illegitimate son, whose name I did not know then. Long-term unmarried partner of mine told 6-7 years ago.
I Dug a few years ago on the internet the information that Mika worked at a car dealership in Helsinki. I’m looking for the same in her mother’s Facebook, and I asked, can I go to see him in the workplace.
the Boy’s mother said, not allowed to take What contact. He had never told me.
I Was, however, a few times car dealerships in watching, and thus, the passing of a man, which I thought was Mika.
When my husband died in October last year, I told Mikasta my oldest daughter. Daughter was thrilled and wasn’t his father at all reproachful.
Daughter found Mika Facebook, and asked me, can you contact him. However, I wanted to respect Mika’s mother’s wishes.
the Boy got his mother died, to know that his father had the man not been his biological father. However, he did not know my name.
Mika wrote in January, facebook was the writing, which described the biological father to be the work of the Enso-Gutzeit owned by Finnlines and owned a big boat and is likely to Herttoniemi allotment garden cottage.
the Other information is accurate, but really, the allotment of the cottage was owned by my uncle. I didn’t have a place, so my uncle got to live in the allotment cabin.
my Oldest daughter happened to notice Mika’s writing and called me that son would be interested in meeting his father.
I was Trying to respect her mother’s wishes, but my daughter was persistent. Your my life partner was dead, so I said yes finally.
you Happen to be in Thailand for three weeks on vacation, when the daughter then announced she was going to see What and his wife Sariah.
I was Afraid of myself, what direction the situation goes.
the Daughter called to Thailand, when you meet Mika and his wife. We talked with Mika on the phone. I was quite upset because I still had three days to fly home.
the first time we met face-to-face at the boy’s house in Tuusula.
my Daughter arranged a meeting. I had a need to meet my son, but I was wondering, how did he take such a man. I was afraid that he condemns in its entirety the father, because I was already self-condemned yourself youthful irresponsibility.
a Terrible sweat was on, but I got a really good reception.
the Boy was afraid of the most, if I’m even alive, because I’m even older than his mother.
Hannu Nyyssönen was afraid that the boy condemns his youthful demeanor, but the reception was good. SARI LÄHDESMÄKI
the Old man inside, this has changed immensely.
we Are in contact by phone with every other day. Mika calls me more than I him, for I want to give him space.
Each call, I’m happy. Tangle is perkaantunut, and I’ve got the boys.
This is yet another peculiar feature. I have had 10 years cottage in Hirvensalmi, old runkotie 5’s along the way. 27 miles of this same viitostie of Kuorttiin way is Mika had a cottage for 15 years.
When Mika comes to the summer cabin, we meet again. She has told me she wants to visit my father’s grave Hirvensalmi.
to my Own mother I told the boys on mother’s day, when I was bringing her flowers.
Mika Lähdesmäki, 51, in vermont: “no One knew even the name of my father”
more Than ten years ago, I heard the biological father rumors passing from my sister, but I forgot about it the same way. I didn’t believe my sister, and I didn’t ask a thing from anyone any more.
the Tangle began to unravel, when my mother died in December last year. My stepdad had my sister to spend christmas and told me that he’s not my real father.
we got my wife a Sari with dig, but no one didn’t even know my father’s name.
my stepfather heard, that he had known me to be another man child by one with my mother. The mother had denied throughout his life, anyone to tell me.
my Godmother, however, know, as the mother of my grandma, who I was living with little.
Hannu had reportedly been at grandma’s ripitettävänä, but he had been already engaged, agreed another woman.
the kindergarten aunt, I had known that Hansel is my biological father, because he was a man through the Hansel family. Kindergarten my aunt lived opposite us. Hansel had once been their house, and the woman had stated, that by the way runs your son.
the Thing was apparently swept Him over, and he had not seen me in more detail.
I Asked my father, godmother to me and I called mom to mom and my stepdad, but a name I didn’t get any. I’m not even a first name.
my Stepfather suspected that my father had worked Enso-gutzeit, a subsidiary of the Finnlines ship as a cook at the same time, when my mother had been working with finnlines on the Katajanokka main office.
my Godmother had once seen the handsome man who had applied for the mother’s beach on the big boat.
in Addition, I got to know that dad was likely to have been a cottage a stone spout in the Herttoniemi allotment garden. There was apparently conceived.
search the thank you belongs to my wife. Without him I would have thrown the gloves already beginning.
my Wife updated the stone beak and Herttoniemi allotment of the Facebook group’s queries and try to figure out also Enso-Gutzeit old data.
my Stepfather told me that was the 1970s, myyrmäki in with the mother day dance, when her mother had said, that there goes Mika’s father.
his Wife put Myyrmäki old tavern in an email. He put my picture up, if the same-looking older gentleman would have seen it.
in January, I ordered from the Usa for a DNA test and my wife share the search message to my Facebook wall as a public.
Facebook-message is another father and son together. Screenshot of MIKA LÄHDESMÄKI SEARCH ad
friends of the day before the Friday I was heading to retrieve my wife, my sister and my stepsister, when I got the call.
the caller asked if I Mika Lähdesmäki, I live in Kerava, is my wife’s name Sari and what is my mother’s name. Then there was little time for quiet.
‘Here is your sister, bye.’
I Went to the parking lot, and I said, that sister called. I hear I was pretty pale and shaking.
I have two sister and a half sister, so my wife and my sister think that this phone call came from a third sister.
‘Not when a new sister called. The father is found.’
Nina had written me a long letter, which he would have brought to my workplace on valentine’s day. However, he saw my wife in public update, it had followed me and Sariah facebook in since I got to know from hansel me.
we Met with Nina on Sunday, when Hansel was still in Thailand. He’s been sitting there for some time, because the return flight was booked until later.
the first meeting together with Hannu cry lurautimme and the story became much. Sister and wife to compare me and Hansel appearance. The DNA test wasn’t necessary.
it was Revealed that we live three miles from each other and the cottage we own the same road.
the Last time you saw the weekend before last. This weekend we went again to visit the Hans cottage.
Many of the familiar is said afterwards, not believing Hansel to be found. I was quite sure I wouldn’t get to know even her name.
the Thing is, initially published in June 2018.
Today, father and son visit each other’s cottages, which are located less than 30 miles apart. SARI LÄHDESMÄKI
