One thing is to love her boyfriend – who loves and livsvidne – something a bit different is that her boyfriend is your confidential friend, as you can also laugh with.
According to new research, there are great advantages, that her boyfriend is also the best friend.
801 adult americans were asked: ‘do you Consider your partner to be your best friend, or call you a second for your best friend?’
83 percent of those in relationships reported that her boyfriend was also their best friend. Men and women were roughly in agreement. And although slightly fewer of the younger participants considered the boyfriend of the best friend, there’s still been a dramatic development: A study from 1993 among students showed that only 44 percent was best friend with your partner.
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Although the data is american, it suggests the meaning that we have given expectations to the fixed relation as for example gender equality and that relationship provides the opportunity for self-development.
And just in relation to self-development can my bf’s status as best friend be required – for the best friend is both a support and a dare say the kind of difficult and hard things, one may need in his self-development.
the Participants in the aforementioned study expects that the partner helps one to grow as a human being.
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Furthermore, it appeared that the persons, who considered her to be the best friend, also were more satisfied with the relationship.
It goes fine in line with that comrade-marriages with the care, safety and common interest last longer. Enough, there are lots of exciting energy in a passionate relationship based on attraction and intense preoccupation with the partner, but it can be grueling in length.
Other studies have also suggested that people who value venskabsdelen of their relationships highly, also report a higher commitment, more love and greater satisfaction with the sexual arousal. The friendship also reduces the risk of breakage.
Which of the degree is confirmed by another study, where the participants were all in relationships of at least 15 years ‘ duration. They stated all these reasons for success:
That the partner is best friend, and that they actually like her as a person.
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all in All, it makes sense to bet on a girlfriend, you like to spend time with and feel a lasting bond with – in a relationship, where you fit in each other and trust each other. Obvious elements that also characterizes the happy friendships.
One can even argue that you should learn of his friendships in relation to its relationships and have the same demands to her boyfriend as best friend. Often one sees, in fact, that many will forgive her boyfriend for a behavior, you would not forgive at his friend.
If your friend is led, rude, constantly angry, complaining, dishonest and ignores your text messages and mess up and don’t bother to talk about meaningful things with you – how long would they be your friend?
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