It is a great thing that people talk about their mental illnesses. If even celebrities can do it, trust in other people also. This was sometimes a reason why the younger brother of Prince Williams wife Kate in the Daily Mail recently of his severe Depression and has told: during the day he had dragged himself to work, only “with glazed eyes at a computer screen to stare at,” wrote the 31-year-old businessman in a guest post. He was lost in a “bog of despair”. Depression, however, be a normal illness, such thing as a “cancer of the spirit”. If you talk about it, lessens the Stigma.

That’s right. But: When celebrities such as the Royals talk about their soul, caused by each of the lot of other humans psychological problems. Then to overflow in a short time, the doctor’s offices. “A lot of people who are not sick, to make unnecessary a lot of Concerns,” says Simon Wessely, a psychiatrist and President of the Royal Society of Medicine. And the really sick have it even harder.

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Today, don’t worry people, if you are in a good mood, or if you have the strength for their excessive leisure activities is missing. My life is good enough? I am too often sad? I have enough Sex? I suffer from chronic insomnia, if I’m going to five times per night? Who draws his well-being of a duration test, it can not go at all well. Will always find something, which is why he might be worried. Therefore, it must also be good times with the constant self-review, which often increases the psychological stress.

“The offices are full of people that don’t belongs there,” says Christian Dogs, recently retired chief physician of a clinic for Psychosomatic medicine and psychotherapy in the Allgäu. “40 percent of them are not sick.” For years, it is discussed that the emergency rooms will be populated in hospitals of people with a simple cold or a broken foot hinhumpeln. Similar applies for starting points for psychological emergencies: The number of people who take an outpatient psycho-therapeutic treatment has increased, according to the Swiss health Observatory (Obsan) – in the past ten years by 45 percent.

grief may burn, hurt, jealousy: Negative feelings are a fact of life. Photo: icon image

The hypochondriac of the 21st century. The eyed only, his liver spots with fear, but also his state of mind. Occasions to there is enough. Sometimes one feels tired, sleeps poorly, and sometimes even feelings are not nice! Grief can hurt like a cut in the Finger, anger drives one to actions that is not, in retrospect, pride, jealousy burns as bad as the Hand to the handle on the hot stove plate.

There are also a lot of therapy

However, feelings are not a disease. To be sad, in a bad mood, or motivation, is completely normal. Nowadays everyone who is in a bad mood but that he had a Depression. Who has the Monday morning not in the mood to go to work, feels of an adjustment disorder to be taken. And Friday evening, when he is at the end of a busy week tired, he fears a Burn-out. Nevertheless, these people don’t need a psychotherapist. But a handkerchief, a desirable target, a punching bag, a comfortable Sofa and especially a friend. The can tell that for him it is often similar. And that it will be better again.

Exaggerated self-observation can lead to faulty perceptions, and frequent visits to the doctor, you need to be not a hypochondriac. In the era of the Internet doctors and patients forums experts say that cyber chondrie and disease Google. The Problem is also With the Awareness campaigns for mental illness, you tend to reach the Wrong people. Educated students about the self-optimisation rotate as members of the Generation already constantly in order to log in to your Instagram Account. Much too little is achieved, however, those who do not so much see the world. “With the public campaign to create uncertainty in people, which make it already a thousand things for themselves,” says Klaus Lieb, Director of the Department of psychiatry at the University of Mainz.

There is not only a too much
attention, but also a lot of therapy. not to be overlooked

Mental illnesses to treat, or to remain silent, is terrible. But normal feelings or problems to psychiatri sieren, as well. There is not only a lot of attention, but also a lot of therapy, and Now, specialists know that it can have dramatic consequences, people help to impose. Some years ago, crisis intervention teams stopped, as in the case of disasters, to the place of the tragedy sent the victim to communicate. It was believed that this “Debriefing” would relieve and sustained trauma to retain – but it has driven countless people in mental crisis. Now you know: Displace is allowed. Only people who want to talk should talk.

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“go race immediately to the therapist,” says the psychosomatic specialist Christian Dogs. “Because you get to talk in case of doubt, only, your mood disorders are a disease. In the worst case, you write sick.” But anyone who has a mild Depression, you should stay at home, but more people go and, if possible, a task – preferably with an understanding employer who keeps the expectations low. Otherwise, he slides deeper into the disease.

No question about it: The borders between healthy and sick, just what relates to the Psyche, smoothly. A rule of thumb you can remember but is in doubt: A mental illness begins when a Person is not only affected in its perception, but also in their function. Someone cleans up his apartment? He or his environment suffers as a result? No? Then this Person might have a compulsive personality structure, but not a Problem. She certainly needs no therapy. Secondly, ten Times per night to Wake up, is normal, if the Groundhog phase of his Childhood behind. It is difficult only if you can’t get back to sleep. Thirdly, There are phases in life when one has it harder with his zest for life. The Midlife Crisis is real.

It is important to enjoy the good feelings. But you should also take time for the negative. The only way to learn the handling of it and stays in Training. Smaller crises are not bad, they strengthen for the next challenge in life. And the determined comes.

(editing Tamedia)

Created: 24.01.2019, 11:20 PM