“Is it that we don’t believe in sexual crimes?”
“He stands in front of a gray-green wall and says it undoubtedly. On the other hand, the inside of the dome and the defense, sitting in the world cup, R Kelly accused on ten charges of sexual abuse. He has surrendered himself to the police, but the lawyer, the man in front of the wall, say it again.”
““All women lie”.”
“We’ve talked a lot about it here, and not enough, to get think on the women’s stories when it comes to sexual abuse. But I can’t stop thinking that it is about something more. So I ask the question straight out in the social media: ”How to talk to guys about sexual abuse?”. It is only girls who respond, as my thesis in the head is right. We shall return to that.”
“the Majority says the same thing. That guys don’t talk about it at all but if they make it so fun they delete it. As it is a mere fiction.”
“To the end of the forcing I submitted a reply from a killkompis, ask how the guys talking about sexual abuse when it comes to be, or have been, exposed themselves. He says that it is not something you talk about. For that guy you should be able to defend yourself. You are used to being singled out as the perpetrator, never the victim. The first is the continued truth, according to statistics from BRÅ, 98% of the perpetrators right guys. “
“I get a notice on your phone. A teenage girl writes:”
““They think that the concept is linked to the girls. They are not in any way afraid that it will happen to them.”
“in 2015, opened Sweden’s first emergency ward for raped boys. In the autumn, Swedish radio broadcast an article about the percentage of men who seek care after rape in Stockholm has increased substantially. “
“the Phone flashes again, a girl writes: “I can’t even remember that I heard guys talk about to be exposed, ever. They have no examples, so that we girls have. And someone gets accused so they protect them.” And I think of it again, thesis. Perhaps, it is all about more than that, we don’t want to believe in the girls.”
“if the guys can neither be perpetrators or victims, what does that do to the perception of the crime?”
“I see a interview in a morgonsoffa where a guy talks about how he was raped by a boyfriend and the male host of the show is bending forward, said: ”You said that you were afraid of not being believed? It might be more believed if you act immediately?”. He strikes out with his hands in a questioning gesture. “Or?”.”
“We are accustomed to the narrator is a girl, this time the victim is a guy – but the result is the same. A ifrågsättande of the victim. And I can’t stop thinking about the thesis in my head: Is it so that we don’t believe in sexual crimes at all?”
“we don’t believe in it no matter morgonsoffor, documentaries about superstars or crime statistics. Instead, we printed against the grey-green brick walls, of ifrågasättningar or gender roles, and think that “all lie” or ”it’s not happening to me”.”
“So. How are we going to be able to handle a crime on the one hand, do not exist and other hand no one believe in?”
“Perhaps that is where we ought to act, immediately.”
“On the whole of society’s views on rape and sexual offences. “
“no matter who the victim is.”
