Sexuality and our views on sex are constantly evolving and changing. Sometimes these developments are positive, and sometimes they are less positive. Four sexologists share nine sex trends they have observed in their practice and in society. They also express some concerns about these trends.
Eveline Stallaart, a well-known sexologist and psychologist, points out a concerning trend she has noticed regarding erectile problems in men due to excessive masturbation combined with pornography. She explains that the high levels of dopamine released during porn consumption can lead to a disconnect between arousal levels during partner sex, potentially causing erectile issues.
Dr. Erna Beers highlights the increasing popularity of lubricants among young women and the negative impact of excessive screen time on intimacy and sexual desire. She suggests taking a digital detox to reconnect with oneself and one’s partner on a deeper level.
Yuri Ohlrichs discusses the misconception surrounding discussions on sexual misconduct by men and the importance of open dialogue and mutual consent in sexual interactions. He also addresses the polarization of ideas about sexuality in today’s society, emphasizing the need for respect and understanding of diverse perspectives.
Elise van Alderen sheds light on the pressure to view sex as a health requirement and advocates for individuals to explore their own sexuality without societal expectations. She emphasizes the importance of self-discovery and acceptance in achieving sexual freedom, rather than relying on external factors like sex toys.
Overall, these sexologists provide valuable insights into the evolving landscape of sexuality and relationships in modern society. By addressing these emerging trends and concerns, they encourage individuals to prioritize self-awareness, communication, and mutual respect in their intimate lives.
