My wife and I were invited to a fourth of a dinner. It wasn’t funny and pulled in the length. Now two questions for me: After how much time one can adopt in such a Situation, the earliest (of the evening was not better, the longer he dragged on and on). And: Is expected to be a counter-invitation? I’m a social ignoramus, if the fails?
P. M.

Dear M.

Nothing there! In the case of people with whom you have to spend on listless nights, you will be dead. And so unmoved fakes already after the Appetizer Nausea (the idea that someone passes soon, is very dissuasive, and therefore acts reliably as a reason for Flight, in contrast to a headache, because you simply bring an Aspirin and you have the salad).

lack of Humor must be punished, and therefore you are not a social Philistine, if you will do nothing of the sort, but a balanced feeling of household are eager. This is a very healthy and forward-looking, because otherwise, the levels of the escalation is predictable: If you have the invite now, return the favor the only (slowpoke, are to be feared in your obstinacy, with regard to the planning of joint evenings,) and you are again under pressure.

you can Push the a latch, go on and you are sitting around years later, still there with them, poking around in your plate, and your choice elsewhere and work out secretly, how much life have you wasted already, and the balance will make you sad, and we don’t want that.

questions? To send you: gesellschaft@tagesanzeiger.ch

(editing Tamedia)

Created: 28.03.2019, at 18:16