“Caroline Ringskog Ferrada-Noli”
“Men have the power to be boring”
“They do not hesitate before writing about their children”
“This is a kulturartikel which is a part of Aftonbladet’s opinionsjournalistik.”
“I have seen other journalists do it within the arts. Only men, never women. Women in söndagsbilagan and in blogs. Jens Liljestrand in Expressen and Andrev Walden in DN makes it almost every time. I’m talking of course about the phenomenon to write about having children, in the best location in the magazine. Or even more how it feels to be a parent. It is interesting, that guys dare to write without the demands of morality. Not something about ”and I think that is brau002Ffel for the children”. What they do is to pick up the subject. Says: I see. “
“For a while then there was a debate on a fine text by Patrik Syk here at Aftonbladet to become burned out by being on paternity leave. He did not become, said the mob on social media.”
“of Course he may. He may even write about it and do it. Take place with their emotions. It was not the real reason the girls got angry? For it is unfair. Exist without tes, case, or rulers. Just feel, think on the best place in the magazine. It is to find a public space, which, in turn, is a privilege, and to the enjoyment of the privilege is a display of power. OR HOW.”
“Walden flexing its just so to the extent that he writes that he wants to go to an interior room and hang himself when he is hanging with their kids. It assumes that we as readers understand that he is MORE than the mind. He can be a good dad in spite of it, while the Liljestrand download on a kindergarten in review after review. On Monday, he wrote that it is nice when someone is born. “
“I grieve this type of inequality. Inequality is bad distributed power, but it is difficult to get hold of. So therefore I wonder: what is power? It seems to be right to be dull for example. But above all, it seems to be getting to be and tell us of a reality outside itself.”
“It almost goes to see a chart in front of him. The lower down on the samhälltrappan, the less vocal about their parenting. I can’t recall a single time when a new arrival has been a boring subject in the media.”
“I came to think of this when I would write my column. Can I write about my reality, I wondered. No damn what b. Nobody wants to read. So sailed Walden up. Perhaps it is my duty to be dull, I do not believe in change through hashtags and emojis. I shall therefore try to force you to read about something boring that builds me as a whole person. Not an activist, objects, woman or victim. Just a normal person.”
“Okay: What a pain it is to be on vacation with small children? I have a hard time being present? Visualizes the wine to cope? Just want to surf the web on your phone? It allowed me to become afraid of the external image of me and my children? My children are geniuses and I’m an incredible mother? There is room to say and at the same time have left flyktkänslor? You would have had the nanny? But it feels a fat immoral? “
