Narcissism may focus on you very intently or open things awkward fast.Narcissistic people can identify during the discussion.Narcissism confide in people exceptionally quickly.He dug out other people’s weaknesses or only talks about himself.One question may be enough to identify a narcissist.
People with narcissistic traits, are adept at creating “masks” depending on with whom they discuss.
Each interlocutor provides the narcissist the opportunity to test the “mask”, to subdue and control.
a Narcissist can recognize during the debate.
That’s how narcissism works, depends entirely on the context. The practices also fit the psychopathic traits of the people.
1. She confided in you immediately
Wife cheated and took everything, but he built his fortune again. He is married, but only because of his unstable wife could not withstand the difference. He’s working madly on a project, where he can’t tell more.
He didn’t even know you could be trusted, but still he will reveal things to you. This can happen already after the first session.
He makes discoveries of himself vulnerable, or as awesome as a movie star.
Why? He needs a bare set a negative agenda of sympathy and intimacy, or he wants to impress, äimistyttää you. The sooner vaikutut and create ties with this people, the faster she moves to manipulate the organisation to get to a new stage.
2. He will repeat these “confidential” stories
He might repeat the story of his horrible wife, or mindless työprojektista almost verbatim whenever I see you. Each is between a habit of repeating the same things, so attention must be paid to repeating the nature of things.
Why? Especially people with psychopathic traits, using a certain script, which they repeat in different people. As a narcissist and a psychopath thinks people are interchangeable, they can be hard to remember what they have said and to whom.
3. He asks very direct questions, or he does not want to know anything about you
Was it a date or your daily appointments, you might notice that he never asked anything from you, even if you have learned to know him. He will tell you things without asking, but he does not expect you to open up.
Why? If he doesn’t ask you for anything or are interested in business, your confrontation the only reason can be that he wants to feed you a script.
If he asks straightforward questions and allow the conversation to proceed naturally, she could collect data. He collected information about all your weaknesses so he can use them later against you.
Especially, psychopathic traits, your tries to find the people stress factors and weaknesses so that he can offer help and make themselves important.
4. He has a “special” requests
Narcissists and psychopaths are asking for favors, because they feel they deserve other people’s time and effort. He might say, request, literally the “special request”. This is what he wants to communicate that you are in a privileged position, when you get to do him a favor.
Why? Because why not? You may be in his life just because of that you apply the best to implement his needs. He might test his power by creating situations where you are aware of a true disciplinarian.
5. He shoots quirky side comments
Comments can be positive or negative. If you talk to your family, he may seemingly to praise you, but at the same time dump on your family. Nastiness is suggestive, passive aggressive.
Why? The nasty comments are a way to subvert you. He may test the defense really give yourself or do you let the remark be because you want to please him.
the Nasty, surprising observations show that deep down he is something other than what he gave you to assume.
Narcissists and psychopaths want to keep people on their toes: it strengthens their position of power.
Source: Psychology Today
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